I think I am over discussing the same thing over and over and,well, over. My tale is not a sad one, just a life with a few turns and twists. So while I've been over my marriage for (at least) the last two to three years, the paper work is yet to be done. There is so many reasons for this, the biggest being that I wanted to be nice and first be employed again. And then the fact that he was out of the country for just short of 18 months.
My timeline in a nutshell - this won't ever be repeated again: